Divorce – Do It Right

Divorce – Do It Right

Understanding the Process of Divorce Mediation

by Joyce Diaz

Divorces can be incredibly stressful and emotional, but there is an alternative to the traditional courtroom battles — divorce mediation. Divorce mediation is a process where a neutral third party facilitates communication and negotiations, helping couples reach a mutually acceptable agreement. This post explores the step-by-step process of divorce mediation to provide you with a better understanding of how it works.

Divorce mediation is a voluntary and non-adversarial approach to resolving disputes in a divorce. It allows couples to have control over the outcome of their divorce and encourages open communication and cooperation. The aim of divorce mediation is to facilitate a resolution regarding matters like child custody, property division, and spousal support.

Step 1: Initial Consultation

The divorce mediation process commences with an introductory consultation attended by both parties involved in the divorce, together with the mediator. In this meeting, the mediator will provide a comprehensive overview of the mediation process, elaborate on the mediator's role, and address any inquiries the couple may have. It is crucial for both parties to feel comfortable with the mediator.

Step 2: Identifying Issues and Gathering Information

Once both parties agree to proceed with mediation, the next step is to identify the issues that need to be resolved. This includes discussing child custody, child support, division of assets, debts, and any other relevant matters. The mediator will guide the couple through this process and help them gather all the necessary financial and personal information to make informed decisions.

Step 3: Open Communication and Negotiation

During the negotiation phase, the mediator will facilitate open communication between the divorcing couple, ensuring that each party has an opportunity to express their needs, concerns, and desired outcomes. The mediator will assist in identifying common ground and finding creative solutions that meet the interests of both parties. This collaborative approach encourages a fair and balanced agreement.

Step 4: Drafting the Agreement

Once the divorcing couple comes to a resolution on all matters, the mediator will create a thorough agreement that details the terms and conditions in a comprehensive manner. This agreement will address matters such as child custody and visitation schedules, child support, division of assets, and any other relevant provisions.

Step 5: Court Approval and Implementation

After both parties have signed the agreement, it is typically submitted to the court. The agreement is reviewed by the court to ensure compliance with state laws and may schedule a hearing to address any outstanding issues. Once the court grants approval, the agreement becomes legally binding and enforceable. Both parties are then responsible for implementing the terms of the agreement.

Divorce mediation provides couples with a collaborative and less adversarial approach to terminating their marriage. If you are considering divorce, it may be worth exploring the option of divorce mediation to minimize conflict and maintain control over your future. 

For more info about divorce mediation, contact a local company. 


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Divorce – Do It Right

Hello. My name is Stephanie Laurel. I have recently been through a divorce, and although I don’t wish it on anyone, I do wish that everyone could come out of the proceedings feeling they have been taken care of. My husband and I had been married twenty-eight years. We have four children, two of which are still under eighteen years of age. We owned the home we lived in and had a vacation home in a different state. We are civilized people, we get along fairly well considering, but no matter how much we thought we could go through the divorce process without lawyers, it wasn't possible. We each hired a divorce attorney to represent us. Most of the negotiations went well, but when we hit a rough spot the attorneys took over. Thank goodness. I’m going to share more about the experience and hope it helps you.